Hold On To Me – Bedroom Kandi
Toy: Hold on to Me (sent by Babeland.com) Type: Kegel Exercisers Manufacturer: Bedroom Kandi w/ OhMiBod Material: ABS Plastic & Silicone Price: $39.00 Sizes: All balls are 1-1/4″ x 1-1/4″ x 1-1/4″...
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Toy: Lyla (sent by Babeland.com) Type: Remote Bullet Vibe Power source: Dual (bullet recharges, remote takes 2 AAA) Intensity: 3 out of 5 (from Babeland.com) Manufacturer: Lelo Material: Silicone...
View ArticleMy definition of “Sex-Positive”
I was recently asked to offer a brief definition of sex-positivity over chat. This is what I came up with off the top of my head, plus a line or two I just added. I thought it might be useful to...
View ArticleIs There A Link Between BDSM & Sexual Violence?
This week I received an excellent question from a university student that I would like to answer on the blog. All of their identifying information has been removed/changed, which means that some of...
View ArticleLooking Out For Each Other After the Election
Dear US friends: Please look out for each other today and for the next few weeks. Some folks are quite angry over the election results and there are pledges of violence against our most vulnerable...
View ArticleWhy I Love The Vulva T Shirt from American Apparel
Women are listening to what we say about their bodies when we discuss this shirt. When we talk about this shirt, we’re talking about vulvas. We’re talking about our culture’s values around vulvas,...
View ArticleA little note to my younger self about sex and relationships
Today an interviewer asked me to share something I, as a sex educator, wish I had known when I was in high school or undergrad. Once I started writing I couldn’t stop, so I’m sure I gave her much...
View ArticleOn books, drinks, and hook-ups
There is a thing going around Facebook asking why people don’t buy books for girls instead of drinks when said people are out trying to get laid. Since everyone seems to be voicing their preference...
View ArticleDealing With Grades After A Sexual Assault
This post is in response to the article Colleges Need To Do More To Ensure Rape Survivors’ Grades Don’t Suffer over on Feministing.com Students of all genders who are struggling after a sexual assault...
View ArticleSlut Walk, Guelph, 2017
Speaking at Slut Walk, Guelph, Ontario, 2017 I was honoured to be invited to be an opening speaker for Slut Walk Guelph, Ontario, 2017! You can find some pictures and coverage of the event from...
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